Tuesday, October 24, 2006

We're having a slumber party with JD!

WOW, I'm over run with emotion tonight. We are "rooming in" with big boy JD (who by the way, hit 5 pounds tonight!) at the hospital - I guess they like to test our parenting ability before we take him out into the big bad world by ourselves. It's so much fun! They have us in a room downstairs from the NICU so we have a shot at this parenthood thing without any help for the night. I wish I put a bit more thought into making it more festive but I was so worried about getting to this point that I didn't think about what we would do in our room once we got him here. Oh well. I find that just staring at him with no tubes or wires is actually plenty fulfilling.



Here he is, watching his first (of many) World Series with Daddy. It's game three of the world series between Detroit and St. Louis. STL is ahead, 2 to nothing. Unfortunately, JD is sleeping soundly through the game, but he must be wondering what that sound of the tv is since he's so used to beeps and chaos. I wonder what is going through is little brain? We're about 30 minutes away from his next bottle so that is probably what he's dreaming about huh?

Tomorrow is a day that we have waited so long for. And until yesterday, I never really let myself think too much about their homecoming date because I've been cautioned for so long to just take it one day at a time. It will be one of the happiest days of my life thus far. And it will be tied with the day that Cole gets to come home, in the next week or two. Having both boys home will be heaven for both C. & I. It's time for us to get our family home and get on with our lives. We've been in limbo for so many months.

I know that leaving Cole here tomorrow will be awfully hard; and I'll cry my eyes out. But I'm sure that my tears will also be tears of joy, that we get to take one of the boys home. It's a bittersweet day - like so many others we've had throughout this journey.

Cole has really picked up the pace today ~ he's doing great with his feedings and his weight is increasing nicely each day. He knows that JD is leaving, I'm convinced. And he's going to do his darndest to follow closely in his foot steps. He's a fighter and he never gives up - I'll never underestimate him, that is for sure! He's our little miracle baby.

We're scheduled to be discharged sometime tomorrow (Wed). Which will be 8 weeks and one day after the day they were born (36 weeks and 2 days old gestational age). That's pretty good for preemies born at just over 2 pounds. We've come a long way baby! Until tomorrow - wish us luck tonight. And a little bit of sleep!

P.S. - The photo below is of C. snuggling in on THE COUCH for the night. After so many nights on the brutal couch while I was on bedrest, let it be known that I offered the bed and he declined it! He's actually more attached to the couch than he will ever admit I think....

10 comments:

Anonymous said...

So thrilled to hear of JD's homecoming. Your little guys are going from strentgh to strength!

Best wishes

Roochelle

Anonymous said...

Been keeping up with your journey through your cousin, Jane. I am a high school friend of hers who had a somewhat similar journey to yours. I'll spare you most of the details, except for to say that I spent 11 weeks on hospital bedrest and my twins were also in the NICU for several weeks. At 2.5 they are such a joy and the bedrest/NICU experience is now something I look back on not with regret or sadness, but amazement. That we actually made it is a blessing I remind myself of regularly.

So excited for you to at least be bringing one baby home. You're right, it is extremely tough to leave one behind, but he'll be home before you know it and then the real crazy fun begins!

Anonymous said...

Well, Hope you guys passed :))) You too must be soooooooooooooooooooooooooo HAPPY!!!! What a great day:))JD's coming home :)))) Sounds like Cole will be following very soon.. as hard as it may be to leave Cole it may be good .. because by the time he get's home you and Chuckie will have your "system" down :)))) Best of luck today !!!!!!

Congrats!!!
XOXO Melanie, Rob and Buddy!!! Woof, Woof :))

Anonymous said...

Toby & Erica were with us when they got the news about JDs homecomeing & the joy was uncontainable!! Congratulations and enjoy your special day! Rooming in is such a great thing AAMC does, it is a good transition for both parent and baby. I remember thinking I had to go check with the nurse each time I wanted to feed or change Abby as it was our first time on our own. All that apprehension will go away minutes after you walk in your own home! The at-home nurses visits are great too, the nurses are SO sweet! Can't wait to hear about the homecoming.
Love,
Tiffany, Brian and Abby

Anonymous said...

Congradulations Mom and Dad. WBC Gloria

Anonymous said...

I'm all teary-eyed and chocked up this morning thinking about you, C, JD and Cole. What a wonderful day this will be and I know Cole will be coming home very, very soon.

Love you so much
Aunt Kathy

robin z said...

I am so thrilled for you all! What a wonderful event. Cole will follow soon. As you said, he's a fighter and is very determined.
Our thoughts and prayers continue!

All the Best!
Robin

Jen said...

Kate,
Yeah JD! Welcome to sleepless nights mom and dad. Now the fun has really started. Don't worry Cole will be home before you know it. The days will really fly by now. Hint from one multiples mom to another take a shower first thing in the morning before you do anything or you won't get one. Your home will never be the same and all for the better.
Jen J.

Anonymous said...

Yeah!!!! I am sure that last night went on without a hitch. I'll bet Cole is pretty proud of his little brother. He is actually pretty smart letting you practice on JD first so that when he gets discharged in the next few weeks you will be an "experienced" mom taking care of JD at home.

As hard as it is going to be leaving the hospital without Cole- try to enjoy every second.

Yeah JD!!! Keep growing Cole. You guys are miracles- fighters and amazing. To go home this early is truly incredible.

Good luck Mommy and Daddy- let the journey begin.

:-) Debbi, A.J. Sally and Sophie

Anonymous said...

Katie! I am so excited for you. You have been so strong through all of this. Have a great homecoming.

Angela
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